Confront the difficult while it is still easy - Tao te Ching (63)

Confront the difficult while it is still easy - Tao te Ching (63)

As we are learning to ride and train, we sometimes encounter big problems that seem to appear very suddenly, and we wonder: what happened??!! Everything was going fine, and all of a sudden, the horse is acting up. Maybe he suddenly stopped and refused to go forward, from one day to the next. Maybe he started turning around for no discernible reason. Maybe he started to rear or buck. In some cases, the reason is pain-related. But in some cases, the extreme reaction is the final stage in a longer process. The rider kept making small mistakes with her seat and aids that the horse didn’t like. So he started to react in small ways at first. Maybe he pinned his ears in certain situations, or he lost some impulsion, or he became more crooked, or he inverted. But when the rider didn’t notice the subtle warning signs and didn’t change what she was doing, the horse had to send out larger and larger signals. Some riders only get the message when they get bucked off. But by that time they have missed hundreds of smaller warning signs over a period of several months. And once the horse is so annoyed that he bucks or rears, the problem has become very serious.

Gentleness and Discipline (Revisited)

Gentleness and Discipline (Revisited)

A little over 20 years ago I wrote an article called “Gentleness and Discipline”, which became a favorite with many of my readers. I haven’t looked at it since I first wrote it. Writing articles is my way of processing information and experiences. Some of what I write becomes a newsletter article or content in one of our online courses. And once I have published something I generally don’t look at it again, and I move on the next topic that I’m interested in.

Recently, Shana said I should revisit this old article and perhaps update it. Like all my articles it was written at a specific stage in my learning journey. It marks a transition from the old, more authoritarian paradigm that I had grown up with to a more cooperative approach.

Good Rides and Bad Rides

Good Rides and Bad Rides

We have probably all had days when we felt like we had completely forgotten how to ride, when it seemed as if we couldn’t do anything right. I suspect that as long as we ride, we may never be completely safe from experiences like this. Fortunately, the incidents seem to become fewer and farther in between, the more we learn. - Or maybe we just don't take bad rides as personally any more, because we know that we will have another good ride again soon. Just like we know after a good ride that there will be more difficult ones waiting for us in the future.